Upset is a good start. But excessive self flagellation doesn't actually go anywhere helpful. In this case it sounds like helping him with how to avoid that kind of behavior, or how to replace it with something constructive is probably what he needs most.
[Sophie, apparently capable of being some kind of interpersonal relationship guru. How ironic can you get. She's just got a lot of experience with morally and emotionally bankrupt people who hurt others unintentionally. (And one guy who did it super intentionally, but he was so so so far beyond 'lost cause'.)]
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Upset is a good start. But excessive self flagellation doesn't actually go anywhere helpful. In this case it sounds like helping him with how to avoid that kind of behavior, or how to replace it with something constructive is probably what he needs most.
[Sophie, apparently capable of being some kind of interpersonal relationship guru. How ironic can you get. She's just got a lot of experience with morally and emotionally bankrupt people who hurt others unintentionally. (And one guy who did it super intentionally, but he was so so so far beyond 'lost cause'.)]