Shima folds his hands behind his head, not alarmed yet at Rin's frustration.

"Oh, I'm sure ya've tried the 'hey, just talk to me!' approach. But after saying that, all you're actually doing is just waiting around for him ta explain it patiently, right? Are ya actually doing any work there? Sure, maybe he doesn't want help, but it's not like ya've made it any easier on him if he's gotta sit there and illustrate for ya why he's got a problem in the first place.

Even if ya say ya aren't avoiding him, ya still aren't really confronting anything, are ya. Ya planning ta just wait as long as ya can for it ta work itself out? That's the habit I'm talking about."