"He is not my Prince." though he won't say no to Ganymede joining him in his realm. Zeus shouldn't get to have all the fun.

"You cannot avoid that. I will know everyone eventually." Hades doesn't mind going to the surface to see that done, either! Except when he does that, some humans see him as a monstrous...bear cow? Poor Iris.

"Then I am more of a steer?"

Death really has no gender. Hades doesn't mind shifting between male and female - or he can be a mixture of the two.

"I would have no use for udders. Milk is meant to sustain life and that would be contrary of me."